"It's difficult to find anything with greater potential to improve your life than an investment into your marriage and it's equally difficult to find anything more personally destructive than when you don't. Your marriage impacts every portion of your life. If your marriage suffers, your life suffers. If your marriage thrives, your life thrives. There are few things that can impact you to such a degree, and even fewer that offer a greater return on your effort." - Jacob Reeve
Jacob & Kimberly Reeve
INTRODUCTION
The Best Marriage Ever integrates the leading scientific research on marriage with over two decades of Christ-centered counseling experience and nearly thirty years of marriage and parenting insights to present the Twelve Measures of the Best Marriage Ever. These twelve metrics are the basis for the twelve interactive chapters of the BME book, the twelve themes of the BME course, and the twelve categories the BME assessment uses to measure the quality and strength of your marriage.
SECTION ONE: HOW WELL YOU UNDERSTAND AND MANAGE THE QUALITY OF YOUR CONNECTION:
1. THE DEPTH OF YOUR HEART TO HEART CONNECTION
2. THE LEVEL OF YOUR COMMUNICATION INTELLIGENCE
3. THE LEVEL OF YOUR TRUST
4. THE LEVEL OF YOUR COVENANT CONNECTION
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SECTION TWO: HOW WELL YOU UNDERSTAND AND MANAGE CONFLICT & STRESS:
5. THE LEVEL OF EXTERNAL STRESS ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP
6. THE LEVEL OF YOUR INTERNAL HARMONY
7. THE MATURITY OF YOUR CONFLICT MANAGEMENT
8. THE LEVEL OF OFFENSE & WOUNDING YOU CARRY
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SECTION THREE: HOW WELL YOU UNDERSTAND AND MANAGE YOUR HEALTH, HAPPINESS & ENJOYMENT
9. THE LEVEL OF YOUR PERSONAL HEALTH & HAPPINESS
10. THE STRENGTH OF YOU INTERNAL DIALOGUE
11. THE CONTROL YOU FEEL OVER YOUR DESTINY
12. THE LEVEL OF ENJOYMENT YOU HAVE IN LIFE & MARRIAGE
* All BME tools are designed to be used by couples, counselors and churches to strengthen marriages at any stage of life. If you are part of a larger organization and would like more information on how to use our tools in your group, or if you'd like to invite Jacob & Kimberly to be guest speakers, please drop us a message (HERE) and we will get back to you.
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING:
- Josh and Carissa S.
“Our experience was transformative. We felt lost and disillusioned and with little sense of hope, but within a few weeks, we were able to overcome major hurdles and rediscover the love and connection at the heart of our marriage again.”
"The Goal of the best marriage ever isn’t to obtain perfection. It’s to obtain a state of perpetual improvement."
MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE A RESERVOIR OF JOY AND VITALITY INSTEAD OF CONFLICT AND HEARTACHE.
Jacob and Kimberly have been mentoring couples for well over two decades. In their continued pursuit of wisdom and education, they have accumulated and incorporated tools from their time at organizations ranging from the Gottman Institute, to Southern Christian University, to Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry. Over the years they have planted and pastored three church communities and authored several books and training courses including titles like “The Great Procession, “Ancient Hebrew Culture,” and “The School of Jesus.” Despite past accomplishments, they consider their greatest achievement to be their family. Jacob and Kimberly have been married nearly thirty years and despite many trials and tribulations, they have discovered how to grow, year by year, in their admiration and enjoyment of each other while simultaneously earning the love and respect of their six children.
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"I'm on a mission to help couples unlock the ultimate pleasure and purpose of their marriage. Please accept my invitation and take this opportunity to transform your marriage and life today. Your family will thank you for it!"
